Yes who gonna join us.
People should at least travel once outside their home country so they can truly appreciate the world.
Yep. It's called Emotional Infidelity. In your similar situation, it was friend and not biological family. Second, your wife sounds like she has the ability to keep a secret where someone's life is involved. I'm not so sure about the letter writer since she just spilled everything to anonymous people on the internet. Doesn't sound very trustworthy of her, in my opinion.